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TricksFix Tips – Breaking up
TRICKSFIX TIPS: How to break up.
You’ve been going out for awhile, he’s sweet, warm, witty and intelligent, but sometime that just is not enough. He cares for you deeply and while you care about his feelings, you are not romantically in love with him, and you are not happy. For you this relationship has the feeling of siblings or friends, or worse, roommates. The passion is not there for you and it makes you sad, but you realize that the longer you wait, the more you will resent him. So, it’s time for you to decide what you want passion or a BFF. Tricksfix says kick man to the curb; life is too short to be stuck in a relationship with no passion.
Tricksfix Tips for breaking up with MR. Wrong.
Remember be honest. If you know that the relationship is limping along to its demise, do not allow too much time to go by. Ending a relationship is never easy, especially when you truly do care for the other person. But, consider this: it is not fair to remain in a relationship if you are not giving it your all. Like the song says, “you gotta be cruel to be kind”. Break things off so that they can have the time to heal and to find the person that they themselves truly deserve to be with.
The Approach.
Sit your man down and look them in the eyes. Always have enough respect for your mate to break up face to face; they deserve that little bit of consideration. Guys let her cry! You know she’s going to do it, so prepare yourself. Guys this is when you have to stay firm. If there is no passion in the relationship, then the relationship is over. So she may cry a river, but remember you deserve to be happy. Let her cry and move on,
LISTEN.
Try to stay positive list their good points and share them. Let them know that there are so many things that you love and admire about them, but that together you just do not work. Do not allow them to think that it is simply one or two problems that can be fixed. Sometimes the perfect people are just not perfect for each other. Try not to allow emotional outbursts to escalate to the point of a screaming match. You do not want to hurt this person if you can help it, you merely want to end things. Try to avoid cliches and tired phrases. Reminisce about good times, but remain firm. A few good times will not change the need to split up in the end.
DO NOT END WITH “WE’LL TRY AGAIN AFTER THE BREAK”.
Sometimes it’s easlier to break up, by saying “maybe we’ll try again after a break”. BIG MISTAKE! A break up is break up and just end it now. And NEVER offer to set your ex up with someone new. That is unbelievably cruel! In fact, do not discuss the future at all. Make sure that you allow some time to answer a few questions and give a few explanations, but do not get drawn into a lengthy debate. You have your reasons and once they have been explained, that should be all that is necessary.
In the end, know that you did not do anything wrong. Ending a relationship is hard, and sometimes it can be sad, but there are times when it is necessary. The end of an affair is not the end of the world, and staying together can be even worse. While you are stuck together in a loveless relationship, your respective perfect matches may be walking right past you. Tell them that you care for them, kiss them good bye and don’t look back. It’s for the best; for both of you.
TEN TIPS FOR A GREAT DATE
Just for the sake of argument, let’s define a successful date by one that has left you smiling and anticipating a second one. In the general scheme of things, a first date is the job interview, the second date is the training period and the third date? Well that means that you have got the job!
So, how do you make sure that you get that second date?
1. Perfect planning of the first date. There is nothing worse than going out on a first date with someone that did not put any effort at all into the evening. Know that you are taking out a vegetarian? Then do not pull up in front of the local steakhouse and expect her to be a happy camper. Find out a few things about your date and then show that you care by honoring them.
2. Pay attention to your personal hygiene. Nothing says “I simply do not care” more loudly than bad breath or body odor. If you like someone well enough to ask them out on a date, then you should like they well enough to at least shower and brush your teeth before you show up. On a related note, if you make flowers wilt and your eyes water on the drive over, then you have gone overboard with the cologne.
3. Dress for success. If you know that you are heading to dinner and a movie, then dress accordingly. Don’t show up to a nice place in a tee shirt and ratty jeans and expect to be welcomed with open arms. If your date shows up in a nice dress and heels, you will know right away that you might be in some trouble.
4. Don’t show up empty handed. A tasteful bouquet is always a nice touch, but some people think it is hopelessly old fashioned. There is a reason some things endure though; they work! A small box of candy is a good choice as well, and if it’s the good stuff, you might be forgiven any social blunder.
5. Mind your manners. No one expects you to be a social expert, but basic courtesy is always in your best interest. Hold doors open, don’t talk with your mouth full. Don’t hip check your date out on the way into the movies. And do not, I repeat, do not belch just before leaning in for a kiss!
6. Pay attention. If your date is talking about something boring, try not to let your mind wander too far away. As soon as a man looks up with that deer in the headlights look, we know that he has not been listening.
7. Make eye contact. This is not the same as paying attention, but the two do go hand in hand. I went out with a man one time that did not look up from his plate a single time during the entire meal. He even spoke to our waitress with his head bent over. I could only describe the top of the man’s head. Not a successful date.
8. Be present in the moment. Along with paying attention and making eye contact, you need to connect with your date. Ask and answer questions, let her know a little bit about yourself. Show her that you actually like being there with her.
9. Know that friendly silences are not all that bad. It is a sign of trust that two people can sit together silently and not feel awkward. Sometimes on the best dates, words are not even necessary.
10. Read the signs for that final moment. You probably thought about it all day long: should you try for the kiss or not. Has she reached out to touch you during conversation? Did she grab a mint or gum right after the meal? Is she staring at your mouth? Then kiss her, you fool! Lean in, gently kiss her and let things develop from there. And after you pull back, pray that you have enough sense in your head to actually ask for a second date before you go floating away.
Let Talk SEX!
When I was young and even up until I was married, you did not talk about sex. I grow up in a small town in Georgia and when I was in high school several girls did get pregnant. But sex was still concerned dirty “taboo”.
Today, it’s a whole new world – GLTB awareness and even shows on TV (Will and Grace, Queer as Folk and my personal favorite The L Word). Then there’s the internet, which has an endless supply of sex toys, porn, pictures and blogs.
So, should I talk about sex, while to quote Sally “YES, YES, YES”
When I was married I HATED that scene, now I think it’s hilarious.
So, I guess with age comes sexual freedom and awareness!
Why a Sex Blog?
My friends all ask me…. Why a sex blog????
Because EVERYBODY has SEX! You may not be having sex now, but you’ve probably had sex before. And if your not having sex, you want to be having sex. RIGHT!! or is this just me? From my experience, the only person/people not having sex have made a personal/religious choice, and lets face it their probably not looking for this blog.
My friends all ask me…. What about your kids????
That’s right I do have kids, but again their not here. Besides sex is health and it is a natural part of life. And when my kids are old enough I’ll talk with them about sex! I will not be sending them here for information. ADULTS ONLY!
My friends all ask me…. What will your family think????
Who cares!!! Their having sex too.
So to my FRIENDS I say “Sex is good, when it’s safe and on this blog”.
Tricks Fix is an ADULT BLOG.
This blog is intented for MATURE BLOGGER ONLY. This blog will contant adult themed material. My wish is not to offen any blogger. Thank you
