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TRICKSFIX TIPS: How to break up.
You’ve been going out for awhile, he’s sweet, warm, witty and intelligent, but sometime that just is not enough. He cares for you deeply and while you care about his feelings, you are not romantically in love with him, and you are not happy. For you this relationship has the feeling of siblings or friends, or worse, roommates. The passion is not there for you and it makes you sad, but you realize that the longer you wait, the more you will resent him. So, it’s time for you to decide what you want passion or a BFF. Tricksfix says kick man to the curb; life is too short to be stuck in a relationship with no passion.
Tricksfix Tips for breaking up with MR. Wrong.
Remember be honest. If you know that the relationship is limping along to its demise, do not allow too much time to go by. Ending a relationship is never easy, especially when you truly do care for the other person. But, consider this: it is not fair to remain in a relationship if you are not giving it your all. Like the song says, “you gotta be cruel to be kind”. Break things off so that they can have the time to heal and to find the person that they themselves truly deserve to be with.
The Approach.
Sit your man down and look them in the eyes. Always have enough respect for your mate to break up face to face; they deserve that little bit of consideration. Guys let her cry! You know she’s going to do it, so prepare yourself. Guys this is when you have to stay firm. If there is no passion in the relationship, then the relationship is over. So she may cry a river, but remember you deserve to be happy. Let her cry and move on,
LISTEN.
Try to stay positive list their good points and share them. Let them know that there are so many things that you love and admire about them, but that together you just do not work. Do not allow them to think that it is simply one or two problems that can be fixed. Sometimes the perfect people are just not perfect for each other. Try not to allow emotional outbursts to escalate to the point of a screaming match. You do not want to hurt this person if you can help it, you merely want to end things. Try to avoid cliches and tired phrases. Reminisce about good times, but remain firm. A few good times will not change the need to split up in the end.
DO NOT END WITH “WE’LL TRY AGAIN AFTER THE BREAK”.
Sometimes it’s easlier to break up, by saying “maybe we’ll try again after a break”. BIG MISTAKE! A break up is break up and just end it now. And NEVER offer to set your ex up with someone new. That is unbelievably cruel! In fact, do not discuss the future at all. Make sure that you allow some time to answer a few questions and give a few explanations, but do not get drawn into a lengthy debate. You have your reasons and once they have been explained, that should be all that is necessary.
In the end, know that you did not do anything wrong. Ending a relationship is hard, and sometimes it can be sad, but there are times when it is necessary. The end of an affair is not the end of the world, and staying together can be even worse. While you are stuck together in a loveless relationship, your respective perfect matches may be walking right past you. Tell them that you care for them, kiss them good bye and don’t look back. It’s for the best; for both of you.